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The Best Adult-Only Weekend Getaways for Couples in North America
Need a quick getaway? Here are the top 13 best adult-only destinations for couples in North America.
As travel is slowly starting to make a comeback this year, a long weekend getaway is the perfect way to ease back into your jet setting ways. It’s time to start making travel memories once again with an amazing adult-only weekend getaway.
Here are some amazing, fun, and romantic North American destinations complete with adult-only hotel recommendations, perfect for a weekend getaway, couples style.
Photo credits: Sparrows Lodge, HolidayHouse, La Serena Villas, L’Horizon Resort & Spa.
Palm Springs / Desert Hot Springs, California
Palm Springs is basically a mecca for adult-only boutique hotels. It’s no wonder that Palm Springs is a hotspot for adults because this destination offers hot springs, stylish hotels, golf courses, and spas.
No matter what vibe you’re going for, there’s an adults-only hotel for you.
Though downtown Palm Springs is pretty walkable, I would recommend a rental car if you plan to visit Desert Hot Springs and/or Joshua Tree National Park. I did this during my trip and really appreciated having the extra flexibility that a rental car provided me. If you're looking at a car rental, you can check out DiscoverCars.com, which was named the World’s Leading Car Rental Booking Website in 2020 in the World Travel Awards. The site has no hidden costs, 24/7 support, and offers free cancellations.
- Looking for a retro, rustic-chic property? Try Sparrows Lodge.
- Going for a trendy, artsy hotel with an insta-worthy pool? Go for Holiday House.
- Want gardens and a view of the San Jacinto Mountains? Pick La Serena Villas.
- Need a spa weekend? You'll love L'Horizon Resort & Spa.
- Wanting that some midcentury modern vibes? Go to The Three Fifty Hotel.
- If you'd like peace and quiet by the pool, check out the adults-only pool at Avalon Hotel & Bungalows.
Just north of Palm Springs lies Desert Hot Springs, which offer a few more adult-only weekend getaway boutique hotels for you to pick from, including:
In the morning, take in nature at the nearby Coachella Valley for hiking, biking, or horseback riding, then spend the afternoon relaxing by the pool or getting pampered at the spa.
Photo credits: Fleur De Lis Mansion B&B, Windsor Court Hotel, The Saint Hotel, Hotel Monteleone.
New Orleans, Louisiana
Next up is the vibrant, jazzy city of New Orleans. This city is brimming with culture and history with influences from France, Africa, and the South. If you enjoy live music and late nights, this is the place to travel to.
Rooms are updated but styled vintage-chic with exposed brick and distressed wood to capture the preserved history of this house, which dates back to 1824.
Looking for a hotel rather than a B&B? While there are not any designated “adult-only” hotel properties in New Orleans, the Windsor Court Hotel, the Hotel Monteleone, or The Saint Hotel are great choices, as they cater to adult audiences.
- For a 5-star luxury experience, go for Windsor Court Hotel.
- Want a sexy and sultry hotel? Try The Saint Hotel, and Authograph Collection Hotel.
- Want luxe with a touch of whimsy? Check in at Hotel Monteleone. (Don't forget to take a "whirl" on their indoor circus themed merry-go-round bar!)
The only thing better than the live jazz music in New Orleans, is the traditional creole seafood dishes that this city has to offer. Gumbo, etouffee, jambalaya, beignets, po-boys...the list goes on. If New Orleans is lacking in something, it’s definitely not flavor! Come with an adventurous appetite for this adult-only weekend getaway.
Photo credit: Blanc Kara, The Julia Hotel, Clevelander South Beach Hotel, National Hotel.
Miami, Florida
Ah, Miami. The place to see and be seen. With pristine beaches and tropical weather, Miami attracts people from around the world. Flashy and energetic, this city is a melting pot of cultures, particularly from Cuba, Central America, South America, and other Hispanic populations.
There are quite a few adult-only hotels to choose from, since this city is known for its attractive nightlife and live music scene, gorgeous beaches, and Latin-American cultural influences.
- Want a hip, modern stay? Check out Blanc Kara.
- Looking for a stylish, sophisticated stay? Go to The Julia Hotel, Miami Beach.
- Want Miami party vibes? You'll want to check in to Clevelander South Beach Hotel
- For that classic Miami art deco aesthetic, stay at National Hotel.
All three offer a 4- or 5-star experience and feature a smaller, quieter adult-only pool option for their guests.
No visit to Miami is complete without trying a few staple dishes that just pair so well with the salty breeze by the ocean. A few highlights include stone crab, Cuban sandwiches, and mojitos. There’s no shortage of stellar restaurants in Miami, but if you want a really unique experience for the senses, visit The Bazaar by Jose Andrés inside the SLS Hotel South Beach. Featuring playful displays of molecular gastronomy (a.k.a. Food science), The Bazaar’s menu features a blend of Latin, Caribbean, and Asian flavors.
Photo credit: Hotel L’Auberge de Sedona, Mii Amo Spa, Tlaquepaque Arts & Shopping Village, Page Spring Cellars.
Sedona, Arizona
Switching up gears from the fast-paced and lively Miami scene, we now go in a completely different direction with Sedona, Arizona. Sedona offers visitors the ultimate casual and laidback adult-only weekend getaway. Sedona is where you go to get back “in touch” with yourself and with nature.
While Sedona doesn’t have many true “adult-only” offerings, there’s a lot of exciting activities to engage in without the kids.
- Check in to the spa at L'Auberge de Sedona . (If you stay here, you can partake in the daily yoga and duck feedings!)
- Relax at the adults-ony pool at Enchantment Resort's Mii Amo Spa after enjoying a day of golfing or hiking.
Visit the artisans and galleries at the Tlaquepaque Arts & Shopping Village.
Enjoy a relaxed picnic by the creek while sipping wine at Page Springs Cellars.
Go on the ultimate ATV off-road adventure or safari jeep tour to see the red rock country that Sedona is so famous for.
If you’re not planning on posting up at a hotel or resort for your weekend getaway, I’d recommend renting a car for your stay. It’s much easier to get around town that way at your own convenience.
Want more details on a weekend getaway for couples to Sedona? Read my complete blog post! >>> How to Spend 72 Hours in Sedona <<<
Photo credit: Forsyth Park Inn, The Gastonian, The Bohemian Hotel Savannah Riverfront.
Savannah, Georgia
For a taste of the south, visit Savannah, known for its antebellum architecture and picturesque parks with oak trees covered in Spanish moss. Although bed and breakfasts may not be your thing, you may want to consider them when visiting Savannah so that you can get the full “Southern hospitality” experience. There are several high-end adult-only bed and breakfasts for you to choose from.
- Want to stay near Savannah's largest and oldest public park? Stay at the adults-only Forsyth Park Inn, an elegant Queen Anne Victorian mansion right across from Forsyth Park and near the historic district.
- If you'd like a romantic stay with 4-poster beds, chandeliers, and verandas, book with The Gastonian, a luxury adults-only bed and breakfast that offers complimentary desserts and cordials in the evening.
- Though not "technically" adults-only, The Bohemian Hotel Savannah Riverfront caters to adults and offers beautiful views of the Savannah River.
After enjoying some down-home comfort food at the 18th century Olde Pink House, go on the adults-only ‘Uncensored Zombies Tour’ with Blue Orb Tours, and listen to spine-chilling tales of the local ghost lore!
Photo credit: Post Ranch Inn, Ventana Big Sur.
Big Sur, California
Big Sur makes the cut on this list because it offers two of the most renowned North American luxury adult-only properties within the continental U.S. - Post Ranch Inn and Ventana Big Sur. Although Big Sur is a stunning location with amazing coastline views, you won’t want to step foot outside either of these two resorts because the properties are simply incredible.
Photo credit: Pueblo Bonito Pacifica, Marquis Los Cabos, Secrets Puerto Los Cabos, Le Blanc Spa Resort Los Cabos.
Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
While this next one may not be as practical to travel to, if you’re based somewhere nearby, like California, Cabo San Lucas may be the perfect spot to have an adult-only weekend getaway.
Cabo is home to multiple all-inclusive adult-only resorts that are sure to leave you feeling relaxed and rejuvenated.
- Breathless Cabo San Lucas Resort & Spa is set on a marina and offers guests continuous entertainment including DJ pool parties, live music, fashion shows, and rooftop soirees.
- If you're looking to post up by the pool for the week, Hotel Riu Palace Baja California offers 4 swimming pools and sun terraces on property, right on the beachfront.
- For a more secluded, elegant stay, check out Pueblo Bonito Pacifica Golf and Spa Resort, which offers an award-winning spa, challenging Jack Nicklaus Signature golf course, and private beach access.
- Marquis Los Cabos captures the spirit of Mexico with contemporary Mexican style rooms, dance lessons, tequila tastings, and seasonal fine dining.
- Dreaming of direct access to the pool from your room? Secrets Puerto Los Cabos offers swim-out rooms, ocean views, and unique architecture.
- Just want some R&R? Opt for Le Blanc Spa Resort Los Cabos, which offers a massive spa with free hydrotherapy circuit areas, a dedicated butler for every floor, and light evening entertainment, like flamenco performances.
As much as you’ll want to spend your entire stay on-property at these resorts, the “arch of Cabo San Lucas” rock formation (a.k.a. Land’s End) is worth a visit. The arch was naturally carved from millions of years of wind, waves, and erosion. Be on the lookout to book a private boat cruise to ensure a kid-free experience.
Photo credit: Hyatt Zilara Cancun, Live Aqua Beach Resort, Le Blanc Spa Resort, El Dorado Royale Resort.
Cancun, Mexico
Another Mexico hotspot for adult-only weekend getaways is...you guessed it! Cancún. If you want multiple options, Cancún has got an all-inclusive, adult only resort for you.
- For more scandalous partying, book a stay at Temptation Cancun Resort with exclusive topless-optional areas.
- If you enjoy the Secrets resort brand, there are 2 to choose from - Secrets Playa Mujeres Golf & Spa Resort and Secrets the Vine Cancun. Although both are similar in overall quality and food offering, Playa Mujeres features a more swimmable beach, whereas the Vine offers a greater number of pool options. Playa Mujeres is further from downtown, while the Vine is located in Cancún’s “hotel zone”.
- If you enjoy gambling, try Hideaway at Royalton Riviera Cancun which offers free gambling at Casino Del Mar. (Note that this hotel is adult-only but set within a larger resort where kids are permitted.)
- Wanting a couples-only resort? Book at Sun Palace, which like Secrets the Vine, is also located in the Cancun "hotel zone".
- For loyal members of the World of Hyatt, stay at Hyatt Zilara Cancun and maximize those reward points.
- Looking for modern details and high-end touches? Live Aqua Beach Resort is the right pick for you.
- For the most luxurious adults-only weekend getaway, stay at either Le Blanc Spa Resort Cancun or El Dorado Royale by Karisma.
Clearly Cancún has no shortage of all-inclusive, adult-only resorts to choose from - there’s sure to be at least one that meets any traveler’s weekend getaway preferences.
Photo credit: H20 Suites, La Te Da Hotel, The Cabana Inn, Danger Charters.
Key West, Florida
Diving and snorkeling enthusiasts will enjoy this next adult-friendly weekend getaway location - Key West, Florida. Key West, the southernmost point of Florida, is known for its beautiful coral reefs and pastel, beachy houses.
- La Mer Hotel & Dewey House (adults-only section of Southermost Beach Resort)
In the morning, ride bikes around Old Town, then spend the afternoon relaxing by the beach listening to the waves crash against the shore. In the evening, either enjoy sunset in celebration on Mallory Square or with some wine and cheese tasting on a Danger Charters cruise.
Photo credit: Miraval Berkshires, Blantyre, Kemble Inn, The Mount.
Lenox, Massachusetts
Who knew that the northeast held its own little oasis for adult-only weekend getaways? The Berkshire town of Lenox, located in western Massachusetts, offers visitors a retreat for all seasons. Fall is primetime for hiking and biking, winter offers skiing, and spring is perfect for golf.
- For those looking for wellness, outdoor activities, and restorative activities, check in to Miraval Berkshires.
- Blantyre is a special historical hotel for those of you craving European flair. The property has a rich history and the estate, sitting on 220 acres, was modeled after the owner’s ancestral home in Blantyre, Scotland.
- Three months out of the year (July, August, September), you can stay at the Kemble Inn, with a style that balances the architecture of the Gilded Age mansion with modern sophistication. Alternatively, you can rent the whole mansion November through June.
If you enjoy exploring historical estates and gardens, don’t miss Naumkeag, The Mount (Edith Wharton’s home), or Ventfort Hall Mansion & Gilded Age Museum.
Photo credit: Hyatt Zilara Rose Hall, Secrets Wild Orchid Montego Bay, Sandals Royal Caribbean, Breathless Montego Bay.
Montego Bay, Jamaica
Like Cancun, Montego Bay has quite a few all-inclusive adult-only resorts to choose from. Frankly, the whole island has quite a lot to choose from in Montego Bay, Negril, and Ocho Rios.
In this weekend getaway, it’s the battle of the brands.
- Hyatt Zilara Rose Hall - best for adults looking for a little bit of everything - pool time, activities, entertainment, etc.
- Iberostar Grand Rose Hall - best for couples looking to disconnect from the world and enjoy each other's company
- Secrets St. James Montego Bay - adults who want nightly entertainment and regular themed parties
- Secrets Wild Orchid Montego Bay - adults who want to relax on a private beach surrounded by water (located on a peninsula)
- Sandals Montego Bay - best for adults looking for laid back, relaxed vibes
- Sandals Royal Caribbean - best for couples who want to stay in an over-the-water bungalow
- Breathless Montego Bay - best for tech-savvy adults who will appreciate the rooms which offer mood lighting, curtain control, surround sound, and room service...all from the touch of an in-room tablet
- Hotel Riu Palace Jamaica - best for adults that enjoy water sports, like windsurfing and scuba diving
Aside from Mexico, Jamaica is king of all-inclusive adult-only resorts. They’re all 5-star properties offering very similar activities and amenities, so you really can’t make a wrong choice!
Photo credit: Auberge du Soleil, Solage, an Auberge Resort, Carneros Resort & Spa, Candlelight Inn Napa Valley.
Napa Valley, California
Wine lovers rejoice! Napa is an obvious win for adult-only weekend getaways for couples due to its many opportunities to learn about and drink adult beverages.
- The star adults-only property located in Napa Valley is Auberge du Soleil. The country-chic rooms and French-inspired grounds offer the ultimate luxury weekend getaway for couples.
- Just want an adults-only pool? Stay at Solage, an Auberge Resort or Carneros Resort & Spa.
- If you like the cozy vibe of an inn, consider Candlelight Inn Napa Valley.
Other options for inns/bed & breakfasts include:
Photo credit: Fairmont Scottsdale Princess, Four Seasons Resort Scottsdale, Omni Scottsdale Resort & Spa at Montelucia, The Phoenician, a Luxury Collection Resort.
Scottsdale, Arizona
Our final destination for adult-only weekend getaways in North America is Scottsdale, Arizona. Although Scottsdale is a popular spot for families, this destination wins the award for destination with the most adult-only pool options.
The following resorts all offer guests the option of lounging by an adults-only pool:
Tired of the pool? Try a moonlight horseback ride with MacDonald's Ranch or explore the 140 acres of 50,000+ plant displays showcased at the Desert Botanical Garden.
Summary
Sometimes it’s nice to just visit a place that offers peace, quiet, and calm. It’s good for the body and the soul, not to mention it’s important for mental health. If you need a quick weekend getaway, these adult-friendly destinations in North America will be the perfect place for that much-needed retreat.
~ If you’ve been to one of these places, what did you think? Which of these adult-only weekend getaway destinations is on your list? ~
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Known as The Jet Set Blonde, Brittany Ryan inspires others to add more adventure to their childfree travel experiences. Brittany has visited 23 countries (and counting!) Connect with her to get access to detailed childfree travel itineraries, travel guides for weekend getaways, and updates on adult-only hotels, resorts, cruises, and other travel amenities.
